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If one is healthy, psychologically in a good place, and financially in a good place, when one turns 55 years old, one can look forward with pleasant anticipation, to living to be 75 years old. One can make plans; one can do the most possible to remain healthy. One has certain conversations with one's physician and one's significant others.
If one is healthy, psychologically in a good place, and financially in a good place, when one turns 65 years old, one can look forward with pleasant anticipation, to living to be 75 years old. One can make plans; one can do the most possible to remain healthy. One has certain conversations with one's physician and one's significant others. Those conversations are similar to the ones one had ten year earlier.
But at 75 years of age it all changes.
If one is healthy, psychologically in a good place, and financially in a good place, when one turns 75 years, one cannot look forward with pleasant anticipation to living to be 85 years old (or can they?). Maybe one can look forward with pleasant anticipation to living to be 85 years of age, but regardless, those conversations one had at the age of 55 and 65 years of age, change at the age of 75.
Insert your own ages for 55, 65, 75, and 85; situations are different. But for me, the ages 55, 65, 75, and 85 work. Those ages would have worked for both my parents. Interestingly enough, on the other hand, neither of my parents-in-law lived long enough to require the conversations to have changed. They were the lucky ones, it seemed, living life to the fullest until all of a sudden when they died. For the most part, they did not experience "getting old." I mean seriously old and no longer able to enjoy looking forward to their next birthday.
Even if one is healthy, psychologically in a good place and financially in a good place when one has his / her annual physical exam at age 75, the conversation changes.
At 75 years of age for males, has one aged out of:
- colonoscopies?
- prostate exams, PSAs, high PSAs?
- chronic hypertension?
- high cholesterol;
- watching one's weight for health reasons?
- skin exams for skin cancer?
I don't know. I haven't been 75 years of age before.
But without question, I'm starting to address those questions with my grandchildren now. But slowly and covertly.



































